There is no limit to hatred. Although most of the time people generalize different levels of dislike as hatred, the fact that we don’t like someone is just the manifestation of how human that person is. At the worst possible times, people who abuse our broad concept of hatred disturb our perfectly placid lives like fungi feeding off self-sufficient plants.
Why do detestable people exist? Common wisdom tells us they are the preface to accepting the world as it is—a congregation of coincidences and ugly genes—and that they pop into our lives as a part of the “test” that makes us stronger. It is quite unfortunate that good people have to experience the stress of dealing with the less acceptable fraction of the human population. Much worse, we are all human. We are born through a single model for genetic structure, which means our minds think alike one way or another; the only difference is our capability to actually execute our thoughts.
Then again, hatred is produced from certain criteria that vary among people. What I hate may be something another likes, or if we both agree on hating the same thing it would be of different levels. Basically, how much we hate something is relative.
Typically, however, it would be best if we did not feel hatred, or if hatred didn’t exist at all.
Since eradicating the feeling of hate is impossible because it is innate in everyone, the most practical thing we can do at the moment is to eat it up. That is, to go on with our lives as if nothing happened or as if detestable people did not exist at all. This is where human arrogance becomes useful for once. We laugh their existence off because they are merely tools the universe utilizes to help us become better people. Simply put, we are using them to our benefit.
You see? Ultimately, reasoning prevails over pulling your emotional adversary’s hair off.
great!=)
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